
by Sylvia Ford-George
Years ago a male friend who was in a serious relationship and contemplating marriage, proposed to test his girlfriend’s love by seeing what she would do if approached by one of his friends. She had never given him any reason not to trust her, but he wanted to put her love to the test. Would she take the bait or shut him down? It was the dumbest/craziest thing I had ever heard of (at the time), and the two guys had it all planned out. Where he would meet her. His opening line. Topics of discussion. I asked questions about how he would handle possible repercussions of “the sting”. Like her taking the bait; the friend discovering he digs her; the fight that would ensue between two old friends; the end of their relationship. Her finding out; her hating him for doing it; her not being able to trust him anymore; the end of their relationship. “Who does that?”, I asked. “Love gets tested enough on its own merit. Is your test really worth it, and how would you feel if someone did that to you? Better yet, could you pass the test?”
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