The end of the year is a time of reflection for most people. Many people wonder: Did I meet my expectations for last year? What should I do differently for this year? But no matter who you are, if you’re single, your mind always goes to… “Should I call my ex?”

I say this because many of my ex boyfriends have found themselves emailing or texting me recently. And as ego-boosting as it is on the receiving end, a girl could only hope none of her bffs are doing the same. So if your winter blues have you second guessing the guy who got away in 2012, the answer is ‘no…you should not call!’ here’s why:

Imagine Mr. 2013

The guy who got away was only making room for Mr. 2013. You don’t want your ex taking up space if a guy like this is on his way…

Stay open to new possibilities ladies!

 (you’re welcome for the random dose of eye candy)